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I KNOW YOU WILL OVERCOME

My story starts at an early age,

see I was raised in a very protective religious environment where everything revolved around Christianity. I was about 15 or 16 when I left my home to live by myself.

To make money I worked in hospitality, mainly as a barkeeper and later, due to my physical abilities, I was able to make money as a bouncer at various nightclubs in Amsterdam.

This environment was obviously filled with booze and drugs. At the age of 17 I did my first line of coke. At first this was rather innocent and happened only a couples of time per year but as life progressed, so did my usage.

My life led me to marry a beautiful woman that gave me the most awesome two sons.

Still using, I started a business, which became internationally successful, still using. I told myself, there is no problem because I was successful, did the things I needed to do. No I was convinced that didn’t had to pay “that” price. How wrong I was. The guilt and shame that I had to deal with over the years was great. I was emotionally not present for my boys and ended up divorcing my wife.

After I sold my business, which provided me with wealth and loads of time, things spiraled out of control. I needed to find help.

That proved to be harder than I thought.

See if you hit rock bottom, if you find yourself covered in desperation, there are one or two safety nets. But I found there is little to nothing for people like me. People who can carry their habits financially and intellectually.

So I started to research pattern and habits. Where do they come from, how do they arise and how can they be defeated.

I have read countless books and bibles, studied psychology (mainly Carl Jung) and read publications, went to rehab, did workshops and loads more.

I found that in essence, most sources claim the same solution for change, all in their own lingo, religious, scientific, philosophical.

But it comes down to the same explanation. The things we do come from our inner being, to change your reality is to change your believes about reality. Awareness is the key.

So I decided to document that which worked for me and test this on other individuals, struggling with similar conundrums like alcohol, drugs, negative thoughts and even sugar addictions.

I was thrilled to find that it also worked for others. The results were astonishing. Clients reported that change was more manageable than anticipated, and the transformations endured.I have made it my life purpose to share this method and bring about change.

I am not what happened to me, but I am that who I choose to become.

Carl Gustav Jung